Obituaries

Charles Edward Downing

Charles Edward Downing

Jun 25, 2024

Charles Edward Downing, age 64, passed away on Tuesday 25, 2024 in his home. He was born in Jay, OK on March 7, 1960, to the late Raymond and Alberta (Wasmer) Downing.

He attended grade school through high school in Grove, OK, from which he graduated.

He did many odds-and-ends jobs, worked on contract with Ben’s Tree Service, and Retired from Simmon’s...

Frankie Alena Niday

Frankie Alena Niday

Jun 13, 2024

Frankie “Alena” Niday, age 103, passed away on June 13, 2024, at Monroe Manor in Jay, Oklahoma. She was born near dry creek in Kansas, Oklahoma on June 1, 1921, to her late parents, Frank, and Nola (Graves) Blair.

Alena was the second of six children which included Bob Blair, Chandler Blair, Frank Blair, Tamina Lawson, and Patty McVicar. Attending high...

Loretta Earlyn Wader

Loretta Earlyn Wader

Jun 2, 2024

Loretta Earlyn Wader, age 69, peacefully passed away on June 2, 2024, at Monroe Manor in Jay, Oklahoma. 

She was born on September 27, 1954, in Litchfield, Illinois to Fieldon Gus Harris and Bessie Malinda Talent.  Loretta is survived by her daughter Waunetta Hanson and husband Eric, her son William Jerry Wader II, as well as her brother Garith Harris. She will...

Coeta A. Williams

Coeta A. Williams

May 30, 2024

Coeta A. Williams, passed away suddenly on May 30, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 

Coeta was the loving daughter of the late Goldie Louise and Joe S. Downing. She was born on October 27, 1950, in Jay, Oklahoma. Coeta led a remarkable life defined by her commitment to her family and her strong work ethic. Throughout her career as a Manager for Walmart,...

Joyce Marie Barnett

Joyce Marie Barnett

May 13, 2024

Joyce Marie Barnett (Haggard) passed away on May 13, 2024, at Grove, Oklahoma, after a battle with Alzheimer's. She was born on June 14, 1935, Jay, Oklahoma, the loving daughter of John and Iva (Fisher) Haggard. Joyce was known for her vibrant personality; she was an amazing and vivacious woman who brought joy to those around her. Her energy and...

Caci Lynne Shelton

Caci Lynne Shelton

Apr 28, 2024

Caci Lynne Shelton, a beloved daughter, mother, sister, and friend, passed away on April 28, 2024, in Miami, Oklahoma. She was born on November 22, 1984, in St Joseph, Missouri.

Caci found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She had a passion for decorating and cooking, particularly renowned for making the best pizzas. Sundays were reserved for cheering on her...

Herman Frank Gundlach, Jr

Herman Frank Gundlach, Jr

Apr 3, 2024

Herman Frank Gundlach, Jr, age 70, has sadly passed away on April 3, 2024. 

Herman was born on December 17, 1953, to Margret (Mead) and Herman Gundlach Sr.  He was known for his love of fishing, hunting, reading his bible, riding his Harley Davidson, and his vibrant personality that lit up the room. Herman was always full of life and never...

Betty Jane Inlow

Betty Jane Inlow

Mar 10, 2024

Betty Jane Inlow, passed away on March 10, 2024, in Grove, Oklahoma. Betty was born on March 21, 1938, in Eucha, Oklahoma to John I. and Cora Lee (Mowrey) Caywood. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, friend to many. Betty was known for her kind heart, gentle spirit, and unwavering faith. In her early years, Betty discovered her love for...

Lois LaVerne Yocham

Lois LaVerne Yocham

Mar 1, 2024

Lois “LaVerne” Yocham went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Friday, March 1st, 2024 at the age of 83. LaVerne was born May 16, 1940 to Kerney and Hazel (Strain) Kirkwood in Sapulpa, Oklahoma. 

LaVerne’s greatest joy was spending time with her family, and especially looked forward, year after year to holiday family gatherings, where she welcomed not...

Darrell Bryan Wofford

Darrell Bryan Wofford

Feb 28, 2024

Darrell Bryan Wofford, a beloved soul who touched the hearts of many, passed away in Springdale, AR February 28, 2024. He was born in Claremore, OK, on March 30, 1950, to Thomas and Lucille Wofford.  Darrell resided in the Grove and Jay communities his entire life.  He graduated from Grove High School in 1968.

Darrell had a variety of hobbies and...

Avenell May Coats

Avenell May Coats

Feb 28, 2024

Avenell May Coats, 82-year-old resident of Jay, Oklahoma went to her heavenly home on February 28, 2024.   Avenell was born in Dalhart, Texas on November 5, 1941, to Woodrow and Esther (Munson) Buchanan.  She was united in marriage to Eddie Gene Coats.  They devoted their lives to raising and caring for their family.  Avenell was a loving wife, mother,...

Delmer Lee Callahan

Delmer Lee Callahan

Feb 22, 2024

Delmer Lee Callahan passed on February 22, 2024, surrounded by his family. He was born on May 29, 1937, and he will be greatly missed. The family will hold a private service. 

Terren James Tanner

Terren James Tanner

Feb 21, 2024

Sweet baby boy, Terren James Tanner, graced us with his presence on February 21, 2024, and what a great joy he was while we had him, but Jesus needed him much more. 

Terren was so loved by his parents Stephen and Lindsey (Jackson) Tanner, his big sister Davi Tanner, his grandparents Tina and Terry Tanner, Janie and Larry Watts; and Wayne...

Juan Lule Cruz

Juan Lule Cruz

Feb 21, 2024

Juan Lule Cruz, age 39, went to be with the Lord on February 21, 2022 in Springfield, Missouri.  

He will be greatly missed by his father Salvador Lule, mother Nicolasa Cruz, his brothers Fernando Lule and Jose Lule, his nephews, nieces, sister-in-laws, and many other family and friends.  Juan was a great person and the family takes comfort in knowing...

Darrel Lee Beck

Darrel Lee Beck

Feb 2, 2024

Darrel Lee Beck passed away peacefully on February 2, 2024, in Joplin, Missouri. Born on September 12, 1953, in Siloam Springs, Arkansas, to Chuck and Margie Beck.

Darrel had a deep appreciation for nature whether it was casting a line into a peaceful lake or setting up camp under the starry sky, he always found peace and tranquility in these simple...

Audrey Kathryn Hoffman

Audrey Kathryn Hoffman

Jan 24, 2024

Audrey Kathryn Hoffman went to her heavenly home on January 24, 2024.  Audrey was born in Portland, OR on April 1, 1967 to Thomas and Grace (Keith) Daniels.  Audrey had a heart for helping others.  For years she worked in home health as a Habilitational Training Specialist. She loved her dogs, especially Chihuahuas, but did her best to care for...

Patrick Joe Byrd

Patrick Joe Byrd

Jan 8, 2024

Patrick Joe Byrd – aka, Bunn, Pedro, Chief, was born June 21, 1948, and passed away on January 8, 2024, at the age of 75 years., 6 months, 18 days. Parents: Thomas John Byrd and Cynthia (Sultzer) Byrd aka, (New Grandma, Gwed).  Patrick was a descendant of early settlers and immigrant Cherokees (Trail of Tears) a fluent Cherokee Speaker, Full...

Vi Estella Rogers

Vi Estella Rogers

Jan 8, 2024



Vira Estella Rogers, fondly known as Vi, passed away on January 8, 2024, at Monroe Manor in Jay, Oklahoma. She was born on May 5, 1938, in Highfill, Arkansas, and was the loving daughter of Samuel and Hilda (Cockrell) Wilson.

 

 Vi lived an extraordinary life as a talented hairdresser and touched the lives of many through her profession...

Alberta Geraldine Morrison

Alberta Geraldine Morrison

Dec 22, 2023

Alberta Geraldine Morrison was born on December 20th, 1940, to Albert and Myrtle Ratliffe Arnold in Gravette, Arkansas. She passed on to meet her heavenly Father on December 22, 2023.

 Alberta was preceded in death by her husband, Richard E. Morrison, Parents Albert and Myrtle Arnold, brother Ray, sister Norma, and Sister Kay.

She is survived by son Clifford...

Goldie Louise Downing

Goldie Louise Downing

Dec 12, 2023

Goldie Louise Downing, beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and great-great-grandmother was taken home by her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on December 12, 2023, in Jay, Oklahoma. She was born on March 12, 1930, in Big Cabin, Oklahoma to Frank and Ada Brundridge.

Goldie's passion for life was evident in everything she did. She had a creative soul and found...